24 hour fitness center, here I come, and learning to stand up for myself…

Ok learning alot today, and thanks to Nancy, I agree that I need some training in my workouts. DVDs are great, but not enough. Sooo, I looked up 24 hour Fitness and they have a $29.99 monthly special, so gonna see if I can do that this week when I get paid. I want to learn good form and how to work on my problem areas, and I don’t want anymore injuries.

Thanks, Nancy and all who encouraged me on this!!

Ok next thing. I have never been very good at standing up for myself. But yesterday and today really being tested, and it came from a close friend. I know this person means well, and trying to take it with a grain of salt, and not lose my temper. Sooo, I am learning to speak out and take critiscm wisely( I hope).

Still hard, ’cause I prob need to confront this person, and I want to do it in love. Cause I do love this person ALOT.

Soooo, I just pray I can do that and not lose my temper. I can’t stand to hurt anyone, sometimes to my own  detriment. But I think this has to do with learning to love myself, too.

Also, learning to love myself is another reason I want to join the Fitness Center, ’cause I am worth it :)

Love you guys~!!

10 Comments so far

  1. khmerbeauty @ April 29th, 2009

    You are so welcome my sweet friend. YOU know I want nothing more then the best for you!!!!!!! I am so happy you are doing this for you mama!!!

    I LOVE YOU!

  2. MayaIsReady @ April 29th, 2009

    Oh I sooooooooooooooo wish we had a 24 hour Fitness Centre up here. All we have is Goodlife, and it doesn’t equal up to the same value as 24 hour! And their hours suck! By the time I put the kids to bed and have my ‘me’ time to go exercise, my fitness centres are CLOSED. Boo.

  3. Lori @ April 29th, 2009

    I am really really excited for you.

    You are SOOOOO worth it Kama.

    You are really taking care of yourself and growing in so many ways.
    Hmmm growing and shrinking at the same time eh?

  4. preshuz @ April 29th, 2009

    That’s great news Kama! Sounds like a good deal too.

    Before you confront this person, just put yourself in this person’s shoes & how would you react at what you would say to this person? I think it’s definitely good that you’re letting the tension die down a little before saying something.

  5. beckyboo @ April 29th, 2009

    YAY on looking into the 24 hour fitness! I am excited for you! I hope things look up with your friend :)

  6. coolbird30 @ April 29th, 2009

    :) We’ve already talked.. :)

  7. monkeycrazygod @ April 29th, 2009

    You need to stand up for yourself hun!

  8. NicoleM @ April 29th, 2009

    You will have to let us know how the train works out and way to stand up for yourself.

  9. yani @ April 29th, 2009

    kama, i agree with steph let the waters cool down…a little first….then…confront that person….
    it’s great you going to 24 hr fitness…

  10. grapeape @ April 29th, 2009

    Hmmm. Before you say anything think it through. Know exactly what you want to say and how. As you well know, once spoken it can’t be taken back. However, I am sure that this person knows how you feel and will understand. Hang in there!

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