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Well real quick, the meeting was good and Ted is better , me too. Thanks for the prayers.
This is what we dicussed last nite:
- I have the right to be sad and to cry without worrying what others think.
- I have the right to choose whom I will talk to about my grief. It is not my fault if the feelings of others are hurt because of my choice.
- I have the right to make decisions for myself. My grief doesn’t mean that I don’t want to be involved.
- I have the right to mourn the loss in my own way, even if it is different from others.
- I have the right to be angry because my loved one has died. My anger is part of the grieving process.
- I have the right to get outside help for myself. Sometimes I need to talk with someone who is not involved with my grief.
- I have the right to take care of myself and to find ways that help me cope with my grief.
- I have the right to enjoy my life without feeling guilty.
A very good meeting, and I feel good about it.
I even resisted the goodies they had!
Ok gotta run, love you all!
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No it didn’t! hehe They are both here!
wow i was looking at your weight ticker! I’m so impressed and proud! Congrats you are almost there, 4 more lbs!
That last point you made is the most important.
NEVER forget that!
~Renee’
What a great meetings Kama! That is great info to share. Thanks. *hugs*
I’m glad you went to that meeting… Glad Ted is better too.
Have you ever read the book “Good Grief” by Lolly Winston? It’s about a woman who lost her husband to cancer, and her passage through the grief process. It’s a very humorous and upbeat book and will have you laughing your head off, and at at the same time, understanding what she is going through. I promise you it will be worth your money and time to buy and read. Promise!
Huggggggggggggggggs,
Shan
Glad the meeting went well and that Ted is feeling better too. *BIG HUGS*
I am glad to hear you found some peace at your meeting! ^_^ Congrats on staying away from the goodies!! You don’t need ‘em they are evil!!!
Congrats on no goodies…you’re so amazing…um how many times do I have to tell you miss?
Sounds like a good meeting with some great points, like having your rights to your feelings and drawing boundaries. I agree with all of the points you discussed.