Please

Let’s all stop this now. I am so disheartened I want to quit reading. It takes alot to get me mad, but enough is enough. I can’t sit around and see this good place and people I love getting torn up. STOP THIS NOW!

NO more calling people out, ok? We are all here to get and give support, not tear each other down. It is getting ridiculous, and jut plain crazy. I don’t like to offend, but C’mon, are we adults or not? To talk about God in one blog and tear people down in the next just doesn’t seem right!

Ok, yeah, I’m mad and I vented. I love my buddies and don’t want them hurt.

Lets unite and bring this site back to what it should be!

9 Comments so far

  1. harleygirl @ September 18th, 2008

    Standing right there with you Kama! I think alot of us feel this way… Dr. Marc may be away right now but he will see through all of this as well…

  2. jensjourney @ September 18th, 2008

    I think you are right 100%. It is making me sick all this crap…and like Debbie said you can’t help but read it…it sucks you in. I have all three of these people that are calling each other out on my buddy list and I try really really hard not to express my opinon…(did once and got burned) First and formost this is a weight loss sight. People make friends here and yes share sometimes personal info with them…ok we get it if we get burned by these so called “multi personality” user on here..we have all been warned more then once…too many times to be exact. I think what is going to end up happening is all of these people who are out to get each other will all end up being banned in the end. I’m sure I will once again hurt someones feelings by posting mine…but you know what I’m tired of people wanting to leave because of all the drama or being upset by it…we all have better things to take care of in our life then listen to this exchange of hurtfulness. I know how you feel Kama and I hope everyone realizes three or four people dont’ make a website lets move on to more positive matters.

  3. jensjourney @ September 18th, 2008

    P.S. Kama I admire you and Debbie for having the guts to put it out there in a blog for all to read. It is more then I was willing to do.

  4. aggal73 @ September 18th, 2008

    Amen….

  5. blt4ever @ September 18th, 2008

    No one is doing anything though. Only the one person keeps going on and on…ranting and raving like a loon. It’s really sad, she needs help. :(

    I have not called anyone out on anything. ONE time in my blog I referred to a woman who was sending me nasty emails because I supported a fellow buddy for being naked in a shower gym. I have NOT called the woman out, not once. That one time I blogged about her I didn’t even refer to her by name.

    She has truly gone off the deep end with her latest attacks at many people here on the site. She is the one that needs to stop…no one else is doing anything.

    I for one am not out to get anybody and would just like to continue my Buddyslim blogging in peace.

  6. blt4ever @ September 18th, 2008

    Kama…not a clue why my message went through four times…on my end it looked like my computer was frozen solid. Could you please delete my excess three? :P

  7. LittleFlower @ September 18th, 2008

    Kama totally agree. It is 100% inappropriate for peopel to address fellow Buddyslimmers out here in public. If you have a gripe with someone / people, then please say it to them in private mail and leave the rest of us out of it. The only suuport I have ever received from BS has been 100% positive so far. I dont need to hear about crap goin on between 2 people who have never met each other. GROW UP PEOPLE. this is a WEIGHTLOSS SUPPORT SITE….. no a feed on my ego site.

  8. Dagny @ September 18th, 2008

    I agree, I don’t know what is going on today as I have just logged in for the first time a few hours ago…but after browsing one page of blogs I thought “I’ll just check back in tomorrow” cause I felt like I woke up on Jupiter or something…

  9. Camachosangel @ September 18th, 2008

    I am sadden by this drama on Buddy Slim. I have so much going on in my marriage that I have shared with my Buddy’s. I have received immeasureable support and love. I think with all that’s going on in my life that Buddy Slim is my “peaceful place”. Guess I was wrong. I’m going to chill out for a few days and log on later in the week. I need to step back and regroup.

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